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Guys, your good wishes must be working: Mum had a really good day yesterday (some nausea, but also some solid food and 4 little walks around the ward), and slept most of the night through. My relief is boundless, and my mood is vastly improved by a shower, some sleep of my own, and reading comments on fic (I'm soooo far behind responding to people!)
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Or, well, not so much with the thinky-thoughts, but rather an explanation of why I really really REALLY mean it when I thank you guys for reading and commenting. Those of you who are behind the friends-lock know what's been going on in my life over the past year (or thirteen, actually), and especially the past several days, so you'll appreciate, too, that in creating things that will be appreciated by others, I am also trying to create a version of 'me' that is valued, that will continue to exist (i.e., be valued by someone, live in someone else' head, have meaning to them) once my mother passes away -- because our identities are constructed, at least in part, out of how the people in our lives think about us.




ETA But also see my comment to [livejournal.com profile] gelsey -- you are definitely NOT OBLIGATED to ever comment my stuff. I just really appreciate it when people do.
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I have been busy committing atrocities over on AO3 and FFN, so here's one just for all of you, my lovely LiveJournal friends:

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